Why do Developers suck in Relationships?

Hello guys, Recently I was trying to do some research on this topic, people say it’s a stereotype that has existed since the 1970s but personally, I don’t think that’s true. Recently, I was trying so hard to be in a relationship considering that my personality type is INFJ meaning that is a bit introvert. And with this personality am required to have an extroverted partner. But now the overall problem comes from the timings that you guys need to spend together. The fact remains to be as developers when we try to focus on something we kinda focus on 100%. Heartbreaks make us not focus well and get depressed. And too much love wastes our time. So where we deserve to be only God knows. lol :)

SCENARIOS IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT TURN OFF DEVELOPERS.

1. That moment when you are stuck on some code or trying to meet the deadline then your partner calls you up and tells you how they missed you.
2. That moment that you are busy and your partner tells you that you aren’t giving them time and attention.
3. That moment when you sat for so long and your butt and neck hurts you try to take a rest and sleep but you get some distraction and drama from your partner.
4. That moment you think your partner will wait for you regardless of your business and you later find out they got some side-chicks or side-cocks lol.
5. That moment you stop coding a lot so that you give them attention but it turns out to be you get addicted to them that you don’t wanna code anymore. Or the dramas turn to be so many and everyone starts getting mad at each other for no reason.
6. That moment you commit to something and you decide to code and your partner calls you up to just get your attention, you later find yourself just taking some sleeping pills so that the time just passes without doing anything.
7. That moment you are heartbroken and you are supposed to do some presentation to a client.

conslusion

Regardless of your situation, just know that time is the best healer. Just relax because

“You can’t control everything sometimes you just need to relax and have faith that things will work out. Let go a little and just let life happen”

by Kody Keplinger